🫢 I almost found myself in an awkward situation — until I learned what that object was for.
I was invited to a dinner, and aside from the usual utensils, there was something else on the table: a metal chain with clips. 🧐 Each clip had its own little decorative charm.
😵💫 I had no idea what it was or how to use it properly, but I felt too shy to ask — it wasn’t a casual dinner among friends, it was a business setting.
I was just about to use it completely incorrectly and make a fool of myself, but luckily, I noticed just in time how the other guests were using it. 🤗
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I was confused. What is this? A piece of jewelry? A thoughtful gesture? Maybe a souvenir?
It felt awkward to ask — I didn’t know anyone well enough, and I didn’t want to seem clueless.
For a moment, I even thought it was a purse holder or some kind of table decoration.
I was about to set it aside so it wouldn’t get in the way, when I saw the woman across from me carefully clip it onto her napkin and place the chain around her neck — and then it all made sense.
It turned out to be a napkin holder, once popular in aristocratic circles. It’s designed to protect your clothes from stains while eating.
Especially handy if you’re wearing a light blouse or dress, and there’s red wine or sauces on the menu.
I immediately copied her — and felt not only smarter, but a bit classier. Who would’ve thought such a vintage accessory is still in use?
Now I know: if you see a strange item at the table — don’t rush. Sometimes all you need to do is observe. And that chain with tiny clips now brings a smile to my face.
